Role Models
So apparently the internet is a bit abuzz about Rihana smoking a tree branch sized joint with Snoop Dogg. If you don’t know who either of these people are it doesn’t really matter, but just keep in mind that both of them are famous. I have nothing bad to say about either, Rihanna has a strong voice and I’m quite certain Snoop Dogg is the world’s greatest Dungeon Master.
What bothers me is the uproar, firstly because she couldn’t have picked a less harmful drug to be partying with, its not my thing but I just can’t see any sort of drama with it. But secondly, and more importantly, is the idea that she is supposed to be a role model.
No. Celebrities are not role models, period. You cannot force someone to be a role model, if someone says they want to be then I suppose they should be held to a higher standard until they change their mind, but for everyone else this is not acceptable. The only people who should be expected to be role models in a child’s life is their parents. Celebrities have a job, usually unrelated to being famous, they sing, they dance, they cook, or they act. Just because they got famous while doing these things does not mean other people get to expect more of them.
This is moronic, everyone is human, we all have desires and vices. To expect someone to suddenly not have them just because they happen to be more talented than you is moronic. Michael Phelps? He worked his whole life to be an exceptional swimmer, he won medals possibly while being high, that should have earned him another medal (frankly). People who got up in arms about him using drugs and being a poor role model are themselves terrible role models, if any of these folks have kids they should evaluate their life and start making changes.
A celebrity should not be a baby sitter for your children’s morality. Video games shouldn’t be used as a crutch, candy shouldn’t be used as a reward, and television doesn’t help children learn (Sesame Street being the only scientifically supported exception).
Stop blaming other people for critical failures in parenting. If a child ends up down a path of self destruction it is not the fault of a 140 lb. pot smoking Dungeon Master. (Again, much respect, I say this as a compliment, I love me some DND.)
I realize life is hard, there are lots of variables, its not always completely the fault of the parents, but it is never, ever, the fault of some “role model” living in the television.
Lets get our roll on…no seriously, where are your D20’s? – Snoop
The Interim
It’s been two days since my last update, I’m not beating myself up over it. This is usually what killed goals for me, I’d be hung up on the little details and would totally fall apart. But now I feel like I can see a bigger picture, mostly metaphorically.
I’m learning to sort of step back and take in each day one step at a time. My knees might not agree but I’m still fairly young.
I’ve been reading about Game Theory and educating myself on probabilities, the goal is to improve my MTG deck building and match playing while also expanding my understanding about a very popular mathematics and psychology combination.
I’m also still riding the mental exhaustion train, this should make the next update to “LSS” much easier, since it’ll be about stasis and long periods of sleeping.
Entropy and Time
I was watching the 2nd part of the “Nova: Fabric of the Cosmos”, and they were discussing the laws of Physics and how things running in “reverse order” are not out of the realm of possibility. Brian Greene explains during the video that it is a matter of odds (I’m perhaps erroneously paraphrasing), there is only one way for an object to be ordered but a vast amount of ways it can be disordered.
This means that statistically you will continue to see things falling apart. I have a theory, at least to why we never see things running in reverse. Lets say you were in a region that was experiencing a “reversal” of time. I would suspect that your body would not be the only thing going in reverse, your senses too would move in tandem. You would be unaware that you have time travelled because your body has rewound in sync with the clock around it.
If someone could reverse “you” you would be totally unaware of this, it would be impossible to sense because all of your sensory systems would be self contained in the event itself. You would see nothing desync about the events in your life. Things would reverse, memories would be unwound, and you would be as you were in that moment that you’ve been reversed to.
Lets say you were to reverse 30 seconds, some great destructive event had occurred and you wished to go back to before it had happened. This would dip into the world of fatalism, because in theory you would go back to exactly as you were before the event. So assuming that no other influence enters the situation it would likely unravel in the same way, but as with entropy before there are many ways the event can end. So perhaps the event would happen subtly different, each time.
This is assuming that you reverse with it. What if you merely observe something go backwards in time but you do not. I would think that you still would not be aware of it. Nothing would feel out of order because your mind would process it with the same systems. If you were a program, which I suppose it could be argued you or I are, and someone changed your coding without making you aware of it, you would not know that anything out of the ordinary has happened.
You would have no personal device to tell you something was wrong, because the devices themselves would be fundamentally changed. To watch a glass recombine would be no more strange to your brain than to watch it break apart. You might even instinctively grasp the glass once more, and everyone observing the situation would be none the wiser.
At the end of the party you are just another person who finished your drink without incident. Unbeknownst to all around you.
That’s my thoughts on the matter, at least.
Sleep is for the Weak and I rolled a 1 for Str.
You know you have not made good decisions for your day when you look at 11:40PM at night and think to yourself “Time to go to bed early.”
We’ll see what tomorrow brings, I just may write another piece to Lost in a Sea of Stars.
Or I might ramble about the tensile strength of trash bags, frankly its hard to tell these days.
Thunder(Cats)
There is a thunderstorm outside, remarkable stuff, seeing that flash of light and then tens of seconds later hearing the source. It’s subtle, I imagine for many people that incident goes by or has gone by without ever really triggering any scientific observation.
But just imagine, at a time when testing the speed of light was entirely impossible, that simple event could help you divine something that isn’t necessarily intuitive. Light travels faster than sound.
I really like it, I’m hoping we have a lot more thunder tonight. It’s exciting, especially when you try to take into consideration how far away the thunder originated by the time it takes for you to see the flash versus how long it takes for you to hear it.
The flash is sort of like the beginning of the stopwatch, telling you when to hit go, and the moment the sound hits your ears you’ve reached the end of the race. Sound travels at about 340 meters per second, so if you end up waiting 4 seconds, that thunder sparked a mile away. Presuming I’m doing the math correctly, 340*4=1360? I dunno, I’m a wee bit tired. So between 4 and 5 seconds.
But regardless, I find it very neat. Just a thought I figured I’d pass on to you.
PS. Cats don’t care where thunder originates, they hate it.
The Two-Way Road of Business
In business there is a very good reason that companies use form letters and unimpassioned messages to their consumer base. The average consumer is jaded, there is a belief that every business is designed to do little more than predate on them. This created the self fulfilling prophecy that most consumers despise.
If you have worked in retail, you have likely experienced this first hand.
Any business that shows humanity, takes personal time for their letters, and uses casual tones will find themselves more often taken advantage by people who misconstrue their words. A legally approved form letter creates a near certainty that your words will be concise and cannot be used against you.
We expect from business that they will do evil, we give them no incentive to not do so, then we lament it once they do. The consumer should act exactly as they expect to be acted upon, if you wish to visit businesses with friendly and lively people, you need to also be friendly and lively.
If you visit a business with malice and sarcasm, you deserve nothing else in return.
Just some thoughts, seeing as soon I’ll be dealing with a customer service issue with my internet and the furthest thing from my mind is strangling the first person I talk to (well not entirely true, worldwide genocide and many other things are even further, but in relation to the topic at hand it is the furthest in spirit).
The Ticking Clock of Life
The feeling like our life is racing ahead of us is something that I’m fairly certain everyone experiences at one time or another. In the past I have suggested that you spend your childhood trying to make time go by faster and then as an adult you spend your time trying to make it go slower.
The tragedy here is that in both cases you fail, that mad dash to 18 is quite an amazing mistake in the US. The illusion of a greater future and the idea that you’ll be doing something overwhelmingly powerful out the door of your youth is one that entrances millions of kids.
What most people don’t point out is that on the other side of 18 is an army of predatory adults just waiting to devour you whole. It’s unfortunate, but that’s not what I’m here to talk about.
Yeah! You better change the subject…
I think that what may contribute to our experience of time is the period between interactions and returns. As a child most of our interactions see a nearly immediate return on investment, you get school work on Monday and get schoolwork due for Tuesday. Your next full unit of return is 24 hours, this is compounded by the 6 classes you likely have. This means that each day is full of tasks that need to be completed and the next page of your life flips in a single day. Compare this with being an adult, you have tasks that are due over the course of weeks or months. You get paychecks once or twice a month (perhaps as high as four times). This is a difference on return of as much as 100x and can quite easily be even more than that. As a child if you tried to rush to the next task you’d jump forward a single day, if you rush to the next task as an adult you will be in many cases a couple weeks older.
There are only 52 weeks in the year, you can make this jump 26 times before you are suddenly older.
Each hour twisting closer to the last.
This is a societal construct. We put less value on the input of adults. As a child you can get great returns on minimal investment, the moment you become an adult it takes great swaths of time for most people to see any kind of recognition. It’s jarring, your natural instinct is to try and treat it like a game, to gather the most collections of return and then act on it. The problem is that while a video game character may be eternal, there are only so many sunsets any of us get to see.
I want to test this knowledge. Though I think I already have. The cruise I took felt like it was at least a month long where it was only about a week or two. Each day stretched on for eons and by the end of it I was exhausted by what felt like an eternity away from responsibility.
I want to capture this again, I want to be shocked (and pleased) that it is only Tuesday. Because all too often in my life now I find myself saying “Thursday again? Wasn’t yesterday Monday.” There is only so many times you can play that song before it falls silent. So I suggest to anyone reading this, try and catalog your outputs and returns for a month. See how far apart they are, find ways to fill the void, give your life a multitude of details and layers. Or perhaps not, really if you are comfortable with the speed of your year then you can ignore this. But it would be interesting to see if anything comes from this expansion of time.
Today’s update isn’t totally out of place, seeing as my short story takes place in the vast expanse of space and time I took some time today to reflect on my own time. Which is quite meta, I will admit, and by the end of it I realized that I really want things to slow down. I’ll do what I can to ensure that happens, I suppose. May someday soon be back with details on my success.
Reading, Writing, and…
That dry feeling behind my eyes tells me that it is getting late. I really need to shift these things to the early morning as planned so that I stop writing when my brain has turned to utter mush. It’s been a darn shame lately because my normal sources for material to talk about are all dry. Which might be a good thing.
When I was in college one of the projects we had to do was write a story on the fly. You were given a set of random restrictions and then had to write about it. It was the source of one of my short stories “The Alabaster Bonobo” and was actually quite fun.
I think I might try something, now this is a heated idea because naturally if I think I’m going to do something I almost never do it (just a personal quirk). When I don’t have anything better to talk about I’m going to start writing a short story. I don’t know when it’ll end, I only vaguely have an idea what it’ll be about, and lord knows it will not have any sort of editing or proper grammar.
But if you’ve been reading for longer than a post you know that this is all par for the course.
Searched the word “Idea’” and saw this image. I like it a lot, so here we are.